Samson: A Sex Addict
In Judges, Chapter 13, we read of the family of Manoah that did not have any children. The angel of the Lord appeared to them one day and told them that they would have a son, and that he should be brought up as a Nazirite. Samson was born. The Lord blessed him and the Spirit of God began to move upon him (Judges 13:25) - the anointing - that was the secret of the power of all these leaders. But unfortunately we read that Samson also backslid, very early in his life. Whenever he saw a pretty woman, he just could not control his lusts. He would forget all about his calling to serve the Lord and would go after that woman - whether she was a Jew or a Gentile made no difference to him, so long as she was good-looking! This was his weakness throughout his life. God used him no doubt, but he had a tremendous weakness for pretty women - like many a preacher today.
Samson's behavior stands in great contrast to Joseph's. Joseph lived before the Law was given and had much less revelation on God's ways than Samson had. Yet he stood true to God repeatedly - and has, therefore, been an outstanding example for young men for thousands of years. Samson, on the other hand has been an equally outstanding warning to all men for thousands of years!
We read in Judges 14:5-6, "Then went Samson down, and his father and his mother, to Timnath, and came to the vineyards of Timnath: and, behold, a young lion roared against him. And the Spirit of the Lord came mightily upon him, and he rent him as he would have rent a kid, and he had nothing in his hand: but he told not his father or his mother what he had done."
Like we would tear up a piece of paper, Samson tore that lion to pieces. He was so humble about it that he didn't tell anyone- not even his father and mother. Samson knew that it was the power of the Holy Spirit that had enabled him to do that.
In Judges 14:10 we read that his father went down to meet the Philistine woman whom Samson liked and got Samson married to her. This was a direct disobedience of God's Law that had clearly commanded that the Israelites were never to marry non-Israelites.
Samson's was an up-and-down life - sometimes up but mostly down.
We read in Judges 16:1 that he went down to Gaza. He saw a harlot there and liked her and committed fornication with her. When he was caught, he pulled out the gates of the city and walked off with them! Later, he met another Philistine woman called Delilah and fell in love with her (Judges16:4). God must have spoken to his conscience many a time, but he would not listen. He probably rejoiced in the fact that God was USING him - just like many do today. Many will come to the Lord in the last day and remind Him of the time He had used them in various ministries. But the Lord will cast all of them into hellfire, because they lived in sin in their private lives (Matthew 7:22-23).
If we keep on rejecting God's gentle warnings to our conscience, we too can destroy ourselves like all those preachers.
Samson finally put his head on Delilah's lap and revealed the secret of his strength to her. She cut off his hair promptly and that was the end of his ministry. What a tragedy! A man who was such a mighty deliverer, was enslaved to his own lusts and passions. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9:27, "But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway." The Living Bible paraphrases that verse as, "making my body do what it should do, and not what it wants to do." That means that we are to make our body eat what it should eat and not what it wants to eat; sleep as much as it should sleep, and not how much it wants to sleep. We must control our eyes so that they look only at what they should look at and not at what they want to look at. We must control our tongues so that they speak what they should speak and not what they want to speak.
If we don't control our bodily passions, we may preach wonderful messages and yet be cast out by the Lord in the final day.
So much depends on our disciplining our bodily passions. That is the message we get from the story of Samson who had a wonderful ministry that blessed so many people, but he himself was disqualified. So many great preachers have fallen prey to sexual sin. Don't be impressed by the gifts that such men exercise or by the vastness of their organizations!! A leader falling into sin is a far more serious thing than an ordinary believer falling into the same. To whom more is given, from them more is required as well.
If you are not faithful in your relationship with the opposite sex, don't dishonor God's name by trying to be a leader in the Church. Don't fool the people that you are a holy man of God, when you are living in sin. God will expose you publicly one day, if you continue to live like that. You may think you are clever enough to hide your sin. But you are not clever enough for God. He will expose you more than you have ever been exposed thus far.